Just after I wrote the last blog I had one of the strangest events of my life happen.
I went to BP for a snack. When I pulled in, I saw a young man and a young woman aruging. I only heard the man talking loudly. I drove past them to park near the door as normal. However something about it seemed strange so I backed the car up so that I could observe what was happening. At first it seemed like they were only having a verbal argument and I decided to stay out of it, but then he put his hand on her arm and was trying to pull her away from the car that was parked there. He seemed to be pulling her harder and harder and somehow he and the girl ended up on the side of the car closer to me (driver's side) and I saw her fall into the car onto another girl that was sitting with the driver's car door open and her legs out. I thought he had pushed the first girl down. So I yelled to him to stop touching her. He yelled that she fell down. Something the other girl confirmed. So I backed the car up and around behind their car so that I could see better and put down the windows on that side of the car. By this time he was restraining the girl from behind. He had her hands up by her shoulders and she was struggling to get away from him. I yelled very meaningly that if he didn't let go of her I would call the cops. So, he said, she's my fiance, this is none of your business . I said let go of her or I will call the cops. The other girl made a signal to me , that basically said yes call the cops. So I said, I'm serious I already pressed 9, now I'm pressing 1. At that point, he let go of her and went back into the store. Once he let go of her the girl was crying and her face was flushed red. I drove my car back towards the store door but stopped so that I could see what the girls were doing. The girl's friend, yelled thank you, and I yelled (still upset from the incident) I suggest that you choose your friends more carefully in the future. She nodded yes and the girls got into the car and left. I drove the car close to the door and debated if I should go into the store or not. My nerves were stressed and my one leg was trembling. However I decided to go in, partly because I wanted my snack and didn't want to let that guy scare me and partly because I was curious about what he would do. As I entered the store, I heard a male customer, say-don't swear in front of women. I heard the guy say, I just had a fight with my girl friend. the male patron said well you still shouldn't be swearing in front of the women. Then the guy went back to the back, got his jacket and walked out of the store past me (I was at the register) he looked straight at me as he walked out but he didn't say anything. I was afraid of what he would do. Then I followed him at a distance out to the lot, and saw that he walked across the lot and then across route 819. I have no clue were he went. He is an employee up there, and in my opinion he deserves to be fired. He was suppose to be working at the time. I have no idea what he was trying to accomplish in that argument except to somehow control the girl. I wonder what he would do behind closed doors if that is what he does in broad day light at a public parking lot.

He is about 5' 8" has short hair and a thin beard that is carefully trimmed. He is slim build. This happened at BP gas and go gas station at about 3:30 in the afternoon on 3. The girl he was arguin with was an Asian (hispanic)? girl medium build, fairly long hair her friend was Caucasion. They had a sports type of convertible car, I don't remember the color but not white or black..red?? maybe